How to Change
The most profound verse for understanding how God changes us, and how we change ourselves. If you get this verse, you get what God is doing in you!
Philippians 2:12-13 Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.